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I was invited to a party the other night but I did not know the party hosts very well and to put it simply, I really just did not want to go at all.

The truth is I?ve been invited to functions just like this in the past where I don?t know the hosts, but at my girl friend?s insistence, I always end up going.

So why do I never want to go?

Through my own thinking I had created a sense of fear about attending the party.without any real basis in reality.

I had pictured myself alone and awkward at the party, standing there in the corner of the room, desperately trying to find something to talk about with the people who were there ? even though I tried really hard, I struggled to make a connection. I never was able to find something that I could talk to other people easily about, the conversations awkward, plus the music playing too loud in the background and I was just plain miserable.

This was how I had pictured myself at this party.

Have you ever had a party experience similar to mine?

To be specific, these types of events are the ones you go to where you think to yourself you would rather actually be having a root canal than suffering through this agonizing torture..

But what if, instead of dreading the party, I had expected and pictured myself enjoying it?

Instead of sitting there, alone and miserable.imagine if I had pictured being surrounded by people interested in what I had to say, fully engaging in conversation, while relaxing music played on in the background, very relaxed and at ease, enjoying myself and my new found friends?

How about if I had expected an experience more in tune with the above mentioned party, how much do you think I would want to go to the party now?

The House Flipping Mindset Revealed

Imagine for a moment being able to alter this type of perception not just when faced with a party choice.but how about when you make your very first deal on flipping a house?

Let?s say you have worked hard in an effort to start your house flipping career you find the perfect house flipping opportunity. Every sign is telling you to move forward with the deal. Finally you have uncovered a good price, the financing is all lined up, you are sure of your expenses and you know for sure how much you can get for the final home.

Yet despite all this, you picture all going south, the house sitting on the market for months, as you watch your margins dwindle-month by month.

How successful can you possible be with this extremely pessimistic attitude?

Not unless you change the PERCEPTION of pain versus pleasure.

Be positive and picture the house selling for more than you expected, under one month, leaving you and your financial backers plenty of money to go around.

This is the sort of mindset you must adopt-the house flipping mindset.

This is not a guarantee that all will go as planned that everything will go right just because you PERCEIVE it will?far from it. You really need an awesome strategy and gameplan of steps that minimizes that odds of a poor deal ? so you can place yourself in a spot to receive value and wonderful feelings instead of focusing on the pain .

And most importantly to achieve this type of house flipping mindset, once you have done all that you need to then create a picture of success mentally as to all you have to GAIN by doing the deal.

This is the house flipping mindset and the first step to making any success real estate investing, or house flipping career.

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Source: http://blog.1stfind.com/?p=301416&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=real-estate-investing-and-invitations-to-parties

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